Dear Dave,
I'm a reasonably attractive 34-year-old successful professional. I work from my home, so I don't meet many men. I am trying activities to get out there, but I also placed a personal ad on the web. My responses so far have ranged from sex-crazed maniacs to people who write once, get my picture, and then are never heard from again. I'm not a super model, but I don't bark at the moon either. I'm wondering, do you have any suggestions on what I can do to expose myself to a better group of men. Are there really nice guys still out there? I'm really beginning to wonder. Thanks for your advice.
You know I get pretty much the same deal as ya with on-line ads… Though I probably would not complain about sex crazed women… It's just one of those things… *lol*
But I do understand you frustration about finding a good match out there in cyberworld. Unfortunately, there are soooooooooooo many matchmaking sites out there that it's hard finding a good one. One decent one that I actually stumbled upon from word of mouth is Singlesnet.com. Now the reason I singled this place out is because they have a very good scope of items you can describe about yourself to others. You can discuss your views on education, dating in general, musical tastes, politics, health and well being and a whole slew of other subjects. You can of course upload pictures of yourself and their best feature is their way of interaction with others. Let's say you find someone you find interesting… You shoot them a message and it strips all personal information (for your protection of course) including e-mail and substitutes a different alias for you. So when you receive an e-mail, it's not technically their's so the anonymity is still there. Kind of cool and worth the visit, so check it out… I'm sure you will find a nice guy there, we're everywhere.
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