Now that's trust!

by admin on March 2, 2009

Dear Dave,

I have been married 10 years and my wife and I have a great sex life. Recently my wife share with information with me about her past that she never discussed. It happened during her first marriage over 17 years ago.

She was on a camping trip with her husband and 2 other guys, and her husband shared her with the other 2. It was a whole weekend of fucking and sucking. My wife and I have always had a monogamous relationship. Her stories of this event seem to get me off. I mean I had her tell me graphic descriptions of what went on when we were having sex and I got off almost immediately. Is this weird or strange? I mean I have no desire to share her but the thought of her doing other guys back then really blew my load. Normal or not. Thanks

This is not weird nor is it strange and it's actually a common fantasy among men to picture their wives in this fashion. Don't think you're crazy or anything like that… I guess to me, the reason this is common is because viewing your wife as this sort of raunchy porno queen brings you back to the days of sneaking porns past your parents or peeking inside the back room of a video store. In all it's sinful and erotic glory.

This may also open up other avenues for you and your wife to better your sex lives. Now, I'm not saying you should pimp around your wife or anything like that but it's fantasy play like this that keeps marriages spicy. Why not head into an adult store one of these days and pick up some other things that both of you may find pleasing. Items such as costumes, movies, perhaps books and some good sex toys will help to open new areas of pleasure for you and your wife… If you really want to get into that porno mood why not invest in a video camera and make your own? As long as the both of you are into whatever is going on sexually between yourselves, it's completely normal…

Sharing this information with you just shows how much she loves and trusts you. It's openness like this that makes marriages last and only get better with time… Good luck!

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